When I go to see her she is verbally abusive and says she is not "crazy" and will call a lawyer to get her out. She says she wants to go to florida to see her "real" family. I feel very bad for her because she is so unhappy. I know she misses her cat but her home was not safe for her. She has mild dementia and she fell at home and was always in a panic. She is also accusing me of taking all her money. I don't know how to cope
you should reword " her home was not safe for her " to " ( i think ) her home was not safe for her " . otherwise your of the mindset that you know whats best for an elder with many percentage points more life experience than yourself .