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Surfgirl, I am so happy to read that you are realizing that you have nothing to feel guilty about and are moving forward in this new season of life. Well done!

You say, you are mad at God for your mom dying and not getting to have a life beyond her marriage to an alcoholic. I want to offer my view point on this. She died because she got it right and she is in Glory now. No more human suffering of any type, only joy, peace, love and many things far above our ability to even comprehend. Your trials are perfecting you for your journey to Glory. Please don't be mad at God, HIS plan for us is perfect and everything that happens to us, happens in HIS time and it is always perfect, even if we can't see it.

Pray for your dad, because it is impossible to stay angry and hurt if you sincerely pray for his salvation and the grace to forgive him.

Look at how much stronger you are because of what you have endured. It's not promised that the walk will be easy, just that HE will be with us.

You are an inspiration and may God bless you exceeding abundantly!
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I am late to the game here because I was away for 12 days and came home and tested for COVID.

You have nothing to feel guilty for. Your Dad made choices. Seems not good ones. He is now where he is because of those choices. We can't save someone from themselves. Your College, did you work during school, did you hold down Summer jobs to help with the cost. If they didn't have it, they wouldn't have helped.

Seems to me that you have done all u can for Dad. He is now safe and cared for so you can have a life.
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