My Mom is moving into a nursing home leaving two unfriendly cats behind. Any advice?

thank you everyone for you responses. I found a local rescuer who has agreed to take the cats, spay the one and try and find a barn for them to be placed. She seems to think that is the only viable option.

I'd like to add a side note to the people posting about people being "selfish or lazy" when refusing to spay/neuter. My mother honestly thought she was doing the cats good by taking in a pregnant outdoor mother cat, like she honestly thought she was helping the outdoor feral cats by feeding them. I had told her numerous times either wasn't a good idea, but, obviously my mother, as well as many other mothers, did what she felt was right.

Sometimes, things are out of our control until we are forced to deal with the aftermath of poor decisions and a bad situation.

kitkat620, we have always had one or two cats at a time who were extremely shy whenever there was company in the house. But when it was just my partner and me in the house, the cats were out and about, friendly, fun loving, and a delight to be around.

The county animal shelter in my area is a no-kill shelter. One cat we have now had been adopted out four times and returned back to the shelter. The excuse was that he was too demanding. We adopted him, and yep he was very demanding but we found that comical. He finally adjusted, and each night for the past 3 years he will bring to me upstairs at night two of his favorite toys.

Playing with a cat will break the ice. Yes, it will take time for one to be trusting.

Hi kitkat, I live in Chicago and know a little about local cat shelters. I recommend you call Harmony House and see if you can surrender the cats directly to them. If not, they will know about other local rehoming shelters that may have openings to take them now. And Chicago has an animal care & control center where you can drop off as well, and the local shelters work with them to place as many as possible.

Maybe the cats need socialization, or maybe they're beyond that. I think professionals should assess them, and they can determine how to proceed.

My cat was born feral. She is still skittish in many ways and likes to hide away. I don't read too much into the hiding behaviors, which is what I suspect is happening when you go to feed them a couple of times a week. My cat is a wonderful house cat though not a cuddly/social type, and it takes some effort to get her to engage in different things. It can be done, and I love her personality. Obviously, I don't know about these two cats, but it would be best to have them assessed by pros who've seen this before.

kitkat620, we also need to realize that your Mom's cats are confused as to what happened to their trusted owner. Cats, like many other animals, will morn the lost of a love one who is no longer in the house. Every day they are hoping your Mother will return.

I found the best way to communicate with the cat is to be down at their level, thus sitting on the floor [if possible] and using a thin rope [like a clothes line] to get their attention. If they are hiding under the bed, just drag the rope slowly back and forth, eventually a paw will reach out to snag the rope. After that, the next visit sit a couple feet back, using the rope to get their attention. Rinse. Repeat. Eventually a pair of eyes will be peeking out to see who is playing with them =^..^=

Not off topic at all. A common problem of caregivers and those dealing with their elders involve pets.
I would take the pets to a shelter. I would tell her the pets have gone to a shelter and that they will be rehomed if that is possible. In home ferals are uncomfortable all their lives in their homes, afraid and timid, basically living lives of misery. I would make it known to the shelter the conditions of their lives so far. A merciful euthanasia is preferable in my humble opinion to foisting such animals onto an unsuspecting adopter, where the misery of pets and guardians is simply compounded.
I have a distant family member with such pets, and it is quite honestly nothing but sad for all involved.

I'd suggest working with a local rescue group to trap the cats so you can get a good look at them.

The rescue may be able to arrange for fostering until a "garden cat" adoption can be found.

If there are funds available and Mom cares about the cats, it would be good to make a suitable donation to the rescue, which should be a 501c3 charity,

I won’t post my usual comment about unwanted cats, feral or otherwise, because it never goes down well. However it may help to know that cage cat traps are available (not cheap to buy, but the Council or shelter should have one). We bait ours with a sardine tin, after eating most of the sardines, and they go for it even if they’ve never seen a fish (which is a bit puzzling). Unfriendly cats are very difficult to deal with, so approach the trap with heavy duty gloves.

Well... you could look for a sucker...

Last year a friend of the family unexpected passed and left behind two older small indoor dogs. They now live an outdoor life (except for winter evenings they spend in a heated garage) and seem happy running and barking at everyone who moves in the yard. We're up to 5 dogs now in the family compound: one 3 legged pit bull who was adopted as my grand-nephew's defender, one golden (when clean) doodle who loves taking a muddy bath in the creek, one Heinz 57 mix who came with my nephew's wife's neices, and the two latest additions. They get along well but sometimes when they ALL come to greet the car it can be an overwhelming amount of doggie affection.

That said, sometimes you need to face reality. Feral cats don't have many placements options. In my rural community, many people believe a quick death is more "humane" than allowing an animal to be mistreated or suffer hunger and thirst. Since you need to place your mother, I suggest trapping the cats and if you cannot find a good placement seeing a vet about euthanasia. A picture of the trapped cats being taken away "to a good home" (cat heaven) may comfort your mother.

This post is from Sept.

Truth is if they are ferel cats they will be euthanized by animal control. There are just too many cats and not enough homes. Thanks to selfish, lazy humans who refuse to spay and neuter.

And thanks to the inflation situation more people are dumping and getting rid of pets and many shelters are full.

Your best bet would be to Google cat rescues in your area or no kill humane society though there may be a substantial waiting list to be on.

Dumping them outside would be cruel since they have come to relie on regular feedings from mom and don't have actual hunting instincts like a true outdoor ferel would have.

Just a sad situation for the cats.