My husband went and got my mother and step dad to bring them to get showers and do laundry plus eat. . He had already took and got them some bottled water, We were in the process of moving them as we had them a home to move them into. My mother had received a eviction notice so being that this was family that was working with me to move her that had evicted her and though it had gotten bad with the other family member suppose to be get care giver as far as a paid Willy check to tend to her but instead was calling in and leaving her 2 yr old son there and was NEVER doing her job. . I'm her youngest and was pushed out due to the do called caregiver, I finally was able to drop all this than my family care giver turned her against all of us now remember this so called care giver I calledher work and got her fired so with money and all that was happening my mom is now homeless other than the home we got her and all get MONEY distros is going on this person. The one that did give the eviction notice was also passing mom's bills and the so called care giver fit to the fact that care giver was and is taking moms MONEY. . The owner of the home that wrote the eviction notice was paying all bills for numerous ppl in the FAMILY other than my Husband and I. .. I NEED advice NOW plzzzzzz
2. If someone is "taking mom's money" because they feel they provided Mom with rent or services, then that is a problem to work out among yourselves or with the help of someone outside the family or situation. Ask at the senior center if there is an eldercare expert or social worker who would meet with you to hear the problem and look for people who could help you.
3. Get POA, Power Of Attorney - go to the library for the paperwork, fill it out and get it stamped by a Notary (banks have Notaries).
4. Stop it from happening into the future. Go to the bank and get yourself put on Mom's accounts as POA. The bank can mark previous check numbers as stolen. Then you can start a new pad of checks with new numbers that would still be good. The others that were stolen will be refused if they try to use them. Get new cards. Change all passwords.
My husband went and got my mother and step dad to bring them to get showers and do laundry plus eat.
OK understand this bit - I assume this was for a visit? not to stay at your place permanently
He had already took and got them some bottled water - I'm sure this has relevance but not sure what
We were in the process of moving them as we had them a home to move them into. My mother had received a eviction notice so being that this was family that was working with me to move her that had evicted her and though it had gotten bad with the other family member suppose to be get care giver as far as a paid Willy check to tend to her but instead was calling in and leaving her 2 yr old son there and was NEVER doing her job.
Now this bit I am stuck on.
Your mum and step dad are being evicted and the people who were evicting her had a good relationship with you and you were working together to facilitate the move? Yes?
So do I take it from the next bit that house she was being evicted from had a family member who was acting as caregiver to mum and step-dad?
OR are you saying that an elder sibling of yours was supposed to be doing the care-giving - which seems more likely
Issue over a willy check but that's minor. I assume that you were paying her and that she was not doing her job but using your mum and step-dad as childminders (for which SHE should having be paying THEM I might add)
Now at a complete loss because all previous thoughts seem wrong
I'm her youngest and was pushed out due to the so called caregiver, I finally was able to drop all this then my family care giver turned her against all of us now remember this so called care giver I called her work and got her fired so with money and all that was happening my mom is now homeless other than the home we got her and all get MONEY distros is going on this person.
So this care-giver is hired? from an agency? and you got her fired?
I dont understand this next bit?
and all get MONEY distros is going on this person.? You distrust this person or your mum is distressed? Something else?
The one that did give the eviction notice was also passing mom's bills and the so called care giver fit to the fact that care giver was and is taking moms MONEY. .
Passing mum's bills to the caregiver? and she was paying them with your Mum's money? (fit to the fact that care giver was and is taking moms MONEY. .)
The owner of the home that wrote the eviction notice was paying all bills for numerous ppl in the FAMILY other than my Husband and I. .. I NEED advice NOW plzzzzzz
And this bit makes no sense if the home owner was paying the bills then the money wouldn't go to your family it would go to the people who sent the bills. And why would they be paying family bills?
So sorry you all have been victimized in this way, and hope it all goes well for you now!!