I am my dad's power of attorney. as well as my mothers. My dad has alzheimers and has been placed in nursing home. Now they won't even tell my mom anything only me. His insurance wont either. I never intended my mom to be excluded. How can I fix this so she will still be able to make inquiries and decisions as long as she is able and then retain poa for when she isn't able.
You can, of course, relay all the information you get from insurance and the NH, etc. immediately to your mother. And you can assure her it was not the original intention to exclude her. You can let her make decisions that you then act upon. But officially, you are the POA.