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Pixiegirl, do you have someone else to help you when you need to lift your Mom? I've read there is less stress on your back when there is a second person. One also has to watch out of heart issues developing when doing a lot of lifting, and with muscle aches/pains in your legs. It all depends on your age and physical condition.
A few years ago I could lift just about anything... now I am lucky I can lift a sack of potatoes. Mother Nature can bring out surprises when you least expect it. So plan ahead.
I have never used one, but I agree with pamstegman to get fitted for one. Lifting someone is hard. Like freqflyer says "plan ahead" . I didn't know heart disease can develop from a lot of lifting, I learned something new today :) Good luck Pixiegirl
Me1000, it has been found that heavy lifting can have a direct impact on the aorta, which is the heart's main artery. Lifting more than half your body weight could cause the aorta to tear in some places..... symptoms are very similar to having a stroke.
Don't forget, any type of heavy lifting can cause your blood pressure to rise. I've heard where weight lifters can get their blood pressure up to 300, which can be dangerous.
For myself, I could never lift either of my parents, and have to be careful even carrying in their groceries. I finally found a way to have Dad [92] remember that I am now limited to lifting.... "Dad, to remember this, ask yourself if you would have Mom [96] lift those heavy boxes... if the answer is *no*, then my answer would also be *no*." So far he hasn't asked me to lift anything.
What about a hoister for mum so you dont have to lift her? ive seen these you can get her from bed into a chair or wheelchair?? Look them up on elder care shops?
Thank you freqflyer for the information. I like how you asked your dad if he'd have mom lift the boxes! Im glad its working for you and what great idea :)
kazzaa, also great idea! Im sure Pixiegirl will have plenty of options and ideas to use. You guys are great!
My MIL is twice my weight and used to be seriously combative. She pushed against me every time. About 6 months ago I hurt my back badly. Thanks to meds - she is calmer now and I am able to turn her without as much resistance. Still, it's really difficult isn't it?
To everyone...thank you so much for your answers. Is there a hoister for small spaces? We don't have much room. Mom is about 90lbs broke hip a year ago and cannot stand. I am only 110 lbs and very concerned about my back. Any lifting tips? Anyone else having to lift loved ones?
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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A few years ago I could lift just about anything... now I am lucky I can lift a sack of potatoes. Mother Nature can bring out surprises when you least expect it. So plan ahead.
Don't forget, any type of heavy lifting can cause your blood pressure to rise. I've heard where weight lifters can get their blood pressure up to 300, which can be dangerous.
For myself, I could never lift either of my parents, and have to be careful even carrying in their groceries. I finally found a way to have Dad [92] remember that I am now limited to lifting.... "Dad, to remember this, ask yourself if you would have Mom [96] lift those heavy boxes... if the answer is *no*, then my answer would also be *no*." So far he hasn't asked me to lift anything.
kazzaa, also great idea! Im sure Pixiegirl will have plenty of options and ideas to use. You guys are great!
Thanks to meds - she is calmer now and I am able to turn her without as much resistance. Still, it's really difficult isn't it?
We don't have much room. Mom is about 90lbs broke hip a year ago and cannot stand. I am only 110 lbs and very concerned about my back. Any lifting tips? Anyone else having to lift loved ones?