My grandfather has been really grumpy lately. I don’t know if it’s because of the situation with grandma or just because that’s how he is sometimes. (he was arguing with me about the tv and stuff) I have been thinking if I should give him some space until Christmas?
No offense to you or any caregiver for that matter.
Sometimes, we are the problem.
Back away for awhile, yes, give space to those you love.
If you are visiting too often or too long without helping to make positive changes, then you are the problem, imo.
BTW,
You should not be arguing over the TV, and stuff.
I'm not sure this is the same poster?
Do you live in the same house as your grandparents, or are you normally just a regular visitor to their home?