I have a question for all of you…my one sister would like to know why when I have had so much support with the Alzheimer support group, I have done lots of research on the aging process and have attended every class down at the YMCA on the subject…how come I still don't have it all together where caring for mom is concerned, why do I still have days where I fall apart????? GOOD QUESTION- why can't I seen to keep a handle on it, This thing called the aging process keeps sneaking up on me from behind. HELP