I’m needing help for mom who has early stages of dementia. She still lives independently and can complete basic skills, but I think a companion (a volunteer or low cost aide) that visits can really help her mentally and give me a little respite. All home care agencies ask for money outside her budget, and hourly rate is cheaper the more hours you use. I don’t need that many hours and mom is in a fixed income to where we can’t afford that. Suggestions are helpful! Thx
You can also check with your Area Agency on Aging and see if they have any options for you.
I would also suggest that you start now in exploring plan B for when your mom can no longer live by herself, as that time will come sooner than later. And of course if money is an issue, she'll have to apply for Medicaid.
Best wishes in getting things figured out for your mom.
Her dementia WILL worsen. You say she is living independently but if you are having to do for her to where you need respite… then she is not independent. She may think she is, but this is an illusion you are propping up.
Maybe some people here know about volunteer or low cost help, but it’s unlikely you will find it. Why would someone be a companion for little pay when they can be a companion for much more? I know someone who would have had to pay $16,000 A MONTH for her mother to have daytime companions. And her mother was wealthy and insured! I’d be leery of volunteers too. Would you feel okay knowing a stranger had access to your mother and her home? Very few people would take this on voluntarily. And would your mother be glad to have them, or fuss and kick them out?
Best of luck getting this sorted out, dementia just stinks.
I would start researching. Speak to your local council & ask about aging services. Call a Dementia or Alzheimer's Society. Speak to Mom's local Doctor. What is out there to help families in your area with this problem.
We are an aging society & (sadly) you can't be the only one going through this. Also, it is not good for you to be taking on this burden alone.
A village of helpers becomes necessary.