my mom swears she just showered eithr earlier in day or day before is incontinent and is getting rashes becomes violent towards me no matter which approach I try I am also disabled and am the only 1 here with her cant afford a facility am still waiting on state help im at my wits end .she is in a wheelchair with moderate alz I only have a tub/shower so I have to put commode over tub and basically soak the bathrm floor just to get her washed
Face/hands, pits, privates, & feet are the essentials really.
When you can get in-home assistance or move her to a facility with roll-in showers, it will be easier for both of you.