My mother is 73 with stage 7 alzhiemers, he is all the time talking about it will cost mom money when she dies. OI have cared for my mother for almost 5 years now in her home. My bother does not pay me for I am on disability ( yes it is very diffacult on me but she is my mother and I was raised to take care of your own. I used to work in a nursing home and I know that she could not get the one-on-one she gets from me. Here home is paid for and I was thinking for all I do for her that I could get her home , my brother told me it depends on what it will cost her when she dies.
Has your mother been getting a pension or SS money? Where has that money gone? What does she have in savings or other assets?
What does your brother say when you ask him what death expeses he is thinking about?