My husband had a stroke a couple of years ago and a knee replacement 6 months later, Although he can walk (very slowly) he is quite week, especially in his knees and legs. Last night he fell off his bed, he was not hurt, but because of his week knees he cannot help himself up. He has osteo-arthritis, and suffers much back ache. So to pick him up on my own was a big mission as he is a dead weight. He has fallen before and most times I am alone with him. I am 69 years old, healthy but not very fit. How can I pick him up without hurting myself as well. We've tried using chairs for him to pull or push himself up but that does not help much.
this might be your only answer.
Talk to your doctor. I've used the Hospital bed and the Hoyer lift for 8 years. The bed is semi manual and the Hoyer lift is semi manual. If Medicare does not work for you, go on Amazon and start your education for successful lifting and transporting.
If bath chair is not a possibility, then you should not be trying to lift his dead weight from a floor position. That is a back wreck waiting to happen and when your back goes out, his care goes out the window. You need someone on speed dial that can come to you in a very short period of time - neighbor maybe. If you have no one to call, then call ambulance. Fire dept/ambulance crew will help you get him up. Plus, if he needs to go to the hospital, they are there to do it. You could call your nearest fire department/ambulance and explain situation. I'm sure they'd be more than happy to tell you if they can help you out in this situation.
So. I went to the garage, got the furniture dolly, wheeled it into her. She looked at it and said “OH NO” She was sitting, so I slid the dolly as close to her backside as I could get and she wiggled onto it. I leaned her backwards and off we went!! At this point we were laughing so hard and stating how proud Dad would be if he were here to see her being wheeled thru the house on a dolly! We got to the steps, I lowered the dolly, her feet were on the first step going down, she grabbed the handrail, I helped her to stand up, and she stood right up. That was a year ago. I haven’t had to use it again, but we still giggle about it. A 94 yr old woman sitting on a dolly being pushed thru the house by her 69 yr old daughter. That may not work for everyone, but it worked for us that night. Ah. The memories.
OR CALL 911
Can the PT make suggestions to increase his safety? Or a home visit by an OT to maybe fit more grab rails where needed or make other suggestions?
The PT / OT combo really helped my frequent faller stroke survivor relative. Another main improvement was having more supervision when fatigued.
I lifted a 5 gal bottle once and hurt my back. Take care of your back, pain can be excruciating. I did not use good body mechanics. We use a Hoyer lift when my mother has a bad day, although it is rare, it is safer for both of us.
Mom had a few neighbors who she could ask too. Dad hated asking for help but had no options.
Please don’t risk your own health, what happens to your husband if you end up in the hospital with an injury?
If I were you I’d buy one (about $20) and ask a physical therapist’s opinion of it.
Hope you have good luck with finding a solution.
I had to do it with my father who was hours from dying and couldn't get out of a wheelchair in the middle of the night. He was skin and bones by then, but dead weight is dead weight. They scooped him up and got him back into bed and went on their way. It was the easiest way not to hurt him.