I am POA, but don't feel it is right for my family to pay for the monthly utility bills, and the taxes at the end of the year if the house is not sold by then. My husband insists that we pay these bills to keep everybody happy, but we don't have the extra money to take over these bills as well as our own. My mom gets $1280 each month, and has Medicaid. Can we use this money to pay for utility bills, and then use the remaining money to pay the nursing home?
their personal care allowance is low enough that it really is just enough $ for hairdresser or magazines or some clothing replacement so no $ there to pay for taxes, insurance, repairs,etc.
Also you can file it all as a lien against the proceeds of the sale if you can do a mechanic's lein or have another agreement in place attached to the terms of the sale. You will have to talk with your Realtor about this and don't wait till closing.
What you can do now is get a binder and start collecting all your reciepts and cancelled checks & start a journal of every and all expenses on the house. Medicaid is a stickler for detailed documentation and that $ 78.00 you paid to have a tree chainsawed down after a hailstorm was $ 78.00 you should be reimbursed for. You really have to pay for whatever - especially taxes as you do NOT want a glitch in the title search - for the length of time it takes to sell. Ask your Realtor what the DOM is like for the comps in mom's area. DOM is days on market. If it 2 months and you are going into month 4, have a reality check with the Realtor on what the issues are for the house. You want to document all this too just in case Medicaid gives you lip about getting less than the assessor value of the home.
Good luck and get that binder and notebook going!
You need to ask the caseworker what needs to happen with the proceeds from the sale. I bet the caseworker will kick up your request to their supervisor. Ideally at closing there should be 6 people being paid: the Sellers Realtor, the buyers Realtor; the county assessor for whatever taxes are due; the title company; you & your DH reinbursed for all costs related to the property based to the penny on your list; and then your mom BUT the state Medicaid program may require that mom's $ to be placed against her Medicaid tally. Ask so that there are NO not so pretty surprises at closing that could delay the sale.
Do ask your Realtor is they have ever had a Medicaid MERP claim property sale issues before too. Good luck.