Follow
Share

What I'm thinking of is a cheaper alternative to Assisted Living but at home. The companion would be at home most nights, plus meet simple needs, which could differ. I know a lady who is at home fighting breast cancer and serious heart issues by herself. She's expressed desire to have someone living with her who isn't wanting her to babysit or whatever, but rather just BE there for the tough days, or if she falls they could check on her, make calls when needed, or even help organize mail, bills, etc.


We live with my mom, 96. I'm incredibly lucky in that she has no serious needs, except meals, meds, and occasional errands.


Meanwhile, my 61 yr old husband has been diagnosed with several diseases just in the past 2 years we've lived here.


We're all fortunate, because the free rent has allowed us to afford his medical, while our being here prevents her from going into a nursing home, and my sister has time for her very busy life.


It got me thinking about how nice it could be if there could be a way to match up people who are simply concerned with having someone in the home with them who are dedicated to being there for them, and can help out with simple things, like a son or daughter would do.


I know there are risks, which would have to be ironed out, but with Baby Boomers getting older and Americans encouraging our kids to move off and basically forget us, it SEEMS there's a need. And I would imagine there's a number of great folks who have reasons they could use the free rent, from college to divorce, etc., including our situation, where having Mom to turn to when I'm worried about my husband benefits me, as well.

This question has been closed for answers. Ask a New Question.
Possibly, but it’s risky in some areas. You would definitely have to do background checks.

In home care ends up being more expensive than assisted living. Plus some assisted living facilities offer staying on a month to month basis but the fee is higher.

Define what you consider simple. Personally, I don’t think anything is simple regarding elder care. It’s tough work if the elderly have major health issues. Even without major issues it is a lot, bathing, cooking, housekeeping, doctor appointments, errands to pharmacy, grocery, etc.
Helpful Answer (1)
Report

Some countries do something like this. Nursing homes offer cheap rooms for rent to younger people. Many times students. In exchange the kids hang out with their elders. It's cheap rent for the kids, it's interaction with younger people for the elders. It's a win win.

But since there's no profit in it for the nursing home, in fact it costs them money since they can rent out the room to another elderly person for much more, it'll never happen in the US. We are all about profit here.
Helpful Answer (0)
Report

My mom was minimal work at 96.  At 100, she needs a lot of help.   There is a group I know in NYC, home of expensive apts, that does match up people.   Most places though the benefit of a rent free room does not make up for the work involved.
Helpful Answer (1)
Report

This question has been closed for answers. Ask a New Question.
Ask a Question
Subscribe to
Our Newsletter