My mother has dementia and will soon be 93. The Boaltc, and DHS, I feel, are not doing their part in protecting our loved ones. The facility has frightened my mother into submission. I'd like to know where the justice is for our loving family members? This is so outrageous!!!
What sort of "trap" did your friend think this meeting was?
Why did you feel the need to request a conference call? Whom did you want included in discussions who was not already there - your sister, or someone else?
The thing is, here is the outline you've given us:
1.You send a polite email asking for greater attention to be paid to your mother's pain relief.
2. The facility says how dare you.
3. You are punished by reduction of visiting hours.
4. The court perversely awards guardianship of your mother to the facility's parent company.
Mm. What else happened? What would the facility's version of events be, for example?
Clearly a dispute of some sort is ongoing. I'm a little mystified how anyone can work out the rights and wrongs of it on the basis of current information, though.
E.g., what is meant by "good faith reporting"? By you, to whom, and what are the issues arising from that?
What are the restrictions on visiting your mother? What occurred or was occurring to prompt issuance of these restrictions?
What is Boalte? (Perhaps others are familiar with this term though). How is it, and DHS specifically failing to protect people?
What kind of "facility" and how has it frightened your mother "into submission?"
The query "where is justice" is rhetorical and could mean anything. What kind of justice do you seek?
I was warned not to go to the meeting, friend thought it was trap.
I requested to have a conference call, and was denied.
Two weeks later I was given new hour's of visiting my mom @ the facility: one hour Mon Wed Fri. It a private room.
Two days later, a notice from circuit court. Petition to put my mom in corporate guardianship. I was shocked! I petitioned for guardianship for my mom. The judge didn't follow the law. This county is known for corruption.
I really dilemma /nightmare for my mom, who has dementia, and other pain issues, severe hard of hearing.
Also thinking that this is a troll and thus will no longer be responding.
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