I usually ask him to put his feet under him and make an effort at standing up while I grab under both arms with my right foot planted between his feet. He is getting more sluggish and less helpful so pulling him up off the chair (he weighs almost twice as much as I do) is nearly breaking my back. I am afraid that this will be the cause to have to place him in extended care and have permanent damage to my spine. Any suggestions would be helpful.
I agree with getting the patient involved with the move. I always started with "Lets move you to X to be more comfortable" "Dad I am thinking we can do this if I do X and can you do Y?" He would repeat what we would try to do together to move him and then we would do it. It made him aware and wanting to help with the move as best he could.
I would have as much equipment in the home as you ever might need to conduct a move. You need options because methods used successfully in July may not work by September etc. The patient's ability to assist will fluctuate.
Be careful. I was able to move my father who was 6'3" without having to place him in a NH. However, you have to work smart. Otherwise you are correct you will injure yourself. Lifts can be a big help as the patient's strength declines. I used them almost exclusively the last year of my father's life. They can be very safe.
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