He is very wealthy and wants to buy his own home and live with my sister. Other fam members want him to stay at condo. My dad worked for 50 years and has more money than he could possibly spend. HE wants to have his own home and quit wasting thousands a month on a condo he doesn't want.
Fair or not, it is the guardian's call. She didn't ask for the job, but she didn't turn it down. She's it. Her responsibility is to act in Dad's best interest.
Fighting didn't do you a lot of good in the guardianship case, did it? There is just no point to it now.
MCI. My Mom could still make decisions and
When the doc felt she could not I took over
As POA. May is ask why you went for
Guardianship? Because with that all other
Siblings lose leverage because the guardian
Has the right to do what they want.
You could take your dad to a geriatric
Clinic and have him evaluated but I'm assuming
That was done and that caused the
Guardianship
My suggestion is (if everyone agrees) to
Hire a Neutral Elder Mediator to sit down with
The whole family including the dad and
Talk about it. Usually things come out in
Mediation . You can talk private with the
Mediator with your concerns or together
With everyone and everything said is
Confidential. It really works. I can tell you
From experience. Hope this helps